Comments on: About A Girl: The End

By: josh

josh — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 06:05:23 +0000

I am praying to any and all deities that you get laid, man. Pisses me off she didn’t go for a ride on the old balogna poney. If you don’t get some action this year, ie: before 2010 is over, I am going to start punching some babies.

This was great writing, though. Some funny shit in the midst of the depression.

By: cody

cody — Tue, 29 Dec 2009 03:18:02 +0000

goddamn. I have been reading this site since the beginning and this whole “about a girl” series of posts have been some of the most heartbreaking and compelling stuff I’ve ever read. I can completely relate to all of the emotional shit that comes with girls. Thanks man, and keep it up.

By: Matt

Matt — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 08:35:13 +0000

“You lost today kid, but that doesn’t mean you have to like it.”

Just suck it up and drive on, Wheels. You’re always gonna lose if you don’t try. Also, next time don’t be so shy about your feelings; it wastes time and causes undue emotional stress.

By: Willy

Willy — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 23:45:40 +0000

You do a little bit better each time. My third big crush was the first one who liked me back, and then it didn’t work out after that. I’m currently working on #4. And it doesn’t really matter how you tell her, you just have to let her know. If she’s already interested, the wording won’t change her mind too much.

By: Colleen

Colleen — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 20:25:52 +0000

I kind of hate girls like this who are really flirty and don’t know when they might be leading someone on. That said, I agree with “Guy Fawkes” that with all the flirting going on initially, you should have made a move quicker while she was still figuring you out. Once a girl writes you off in the “friend” category it’s hard or impossible to recover. With flirty girls this is harder to figure out, as you discovered, because the way they act is so ambiguous. One barometer I use to tell if a girl is flirting with my boyfriend is whether she is flirtatious towards everyone or all men she interacts with. Recently a friend was hanging all over my boyfriend, and I went over to break it up, and she proceeded to hang all over me instead. She wasn’t a bitch, just a flirty drunk.

By: Goats

Goats — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 19:43:34 +0000

Dude–it was never meant to be…nothing you could have done. Keep swinging the bat—yours is coming!

By: Guy Fawkes

Guy Fawkes — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 17:30:39 +0000

While I’m sorry it ended the way it did at least you made some progress.

A word of advice though. Don’t put all the pressure on the next girl. It scares the shit out of them (hell anyone).

Telling her that she’s the first girl you’ve ever actually admitted your connection/feelings for is a lot for someone to live up to. Especially given your ages. Obviously your social interaction has been somewhat stunted because of your situation but for most of these women it hasn’t. The last time a guy told a 20-something girl he had a “crush” on her was probably pre-middle school.

Next time (and there will always be a next time) don’t wait until the girl in question has already found someone else. If you’re interested in her, let her know.

By: Pele

Pele — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 11:40:44 +0000

Keep it up man. Look forward to buying your book one day. I never had the balls to make a move – I stayed inside my bubble for 3 years. Keep it up man.

By: Wayland

Wayland — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 03:29:16 +0000

Good job dude. Keep being awesome.

By: Rat Fink

Rat Fink — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 03:19:29 +0000

*tear*